You’ve already blown your opportunity. If you really don’t trust his taste, you shouldn’t have told him you did. Now you want to manipulate him, right? It’s fair to point out things you like in store windows and magazines and ask whether he thinks they’re pretty too. Since this is a relatively new relationship, it’s not really appropriate to expect costly jewels. You might want to reflect on what your expectations of this fellow are and whether they’re realistic.

Why don’t you give the guy a break and wait and see what happens? You might be pleasantly surprised. Remember that the only meaningful gifts we have to give are our time and attention. If they translate into jewels, great. But don’t discard the attributes that give the relationship real value.